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When Life Throws You a Curveball

September 12, 20234 min read

Yesterday, I came up with a new way to plan my day and ensure amazing productivity and achievement of all my goals. It was foolproof. My entire week was planned out along with an exciting dashboard that I could use to track where I was spending my time.

It was a brilliant plan…until it wasn’t.

A client asked for major changes to the final deliverables, and my entire plan went out the window. Everything I had carefully scheduled was now just a fleeting memory.

In the quest for productivity and efficiency, I made the mistake so many of us do.  I relied on meticulously planned daily routines to navigate my day. There’s nothing inherently wrong with that, a well-structured plan can be a powerful tool to help us achieve our goals and stay on track.

However, life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way, often leaving our carefully crafted plans in disarray. Or, in my case, sitting at my desk with my head in my hands, wondering what the hell just happened. 

I’ve learned a lesson or two about setting and reaching goals throughout my life (and apparently am still learning), and I wanted to share them with you.

The Power of Planning

Planning begins with setting clear and achievable goals. Whether they are personal or professional, goals give us direction and purpose. They help us prioritize our tasks and allocate time and resources effectively. By defining your goals, you create a roadmap for success.  I set my goals using a tool called the Wheel of Life.  The Wheel of Life is a great tool I use to help me get a “helicopter view” of my life areas. At one glance, it provides me with a holistic view of the balance between areas in my life. You can Google it or reach out, and I’ll share it with you. 

Once I know my goals, it’s time to plan how to achieve them. Planning involves allocating time to specific tasks and activities. It means dividing your goals into actionable tasks.  Effective time management ensures that you make the most of your day. You can be more productive, reduce procrastination, and minimize the chances of forgetting important commitments.

I love planning because it provides me with a sense of control and predictability. It reduces my stress and anxiety by helping me anticipate challenges and prepare for them in advance. When you know what's ahead, you can approach your day with confidence.

 When Planning Goes Awry

But as I shared in the opening, life is unpredictable, and unforeseen events can derail even the most well-thought-out plans. When your plans are disrupted, frustration and stress can follow. You might feel overwhelmed, anxious, or even defeated. This frustration can further hinder your ability to adapt and find a solution.

One common mistake people make is sticking rigidly to their original plan despite disruptions. This can lead to inefficient use of time and resources and increase stress levels. It's essential to recognize when to pivot and adapt.

Strategies for Adapting

One of the most crucial skills I've learned to handle unexpected changes is flexibility. Understand that no plan is set in stone, and it's okay to adjust your schedule when necessary. Flexibility allows you to respond effectively to new challenges.

When faced with unexpected tasks or changes, quickly assess their importance and urgency. Prioritize them alongside your existing plan and delegate where possible. By rearranging tasks, you can make room for the unexpected without completely derailing your day.

Consider incorporating buffer time into your schedule. These are blocks of time dedicated to handling unforeseen issues or urgent requests. Having this buffer can provide a safety net when unexpected events occur.  Beware the tendency to schedule every moment of the day.  It is a recipe for disaster. Now, when I'm planning my tasks, I schedule an hour for the "unforseen". That white space on my calendar gives me flexibility!

Every unexpected challenge is an opportunity for growth and learning. After a disruption, take a moment to reflect on what caused it and how you can prevent or better manage similar situations in the future. Continuous adaptation is the key to long-term success.

Planning is undeniably essential for achieving our goals and managing our daily lives efficiently. However, life is full of surprises, and even the best-laid plans can be upended. The true art of planning lies not just in creating a structured roadmap but in our ability to adapt and pivot when circumstances change. By embracing flexibility, prioritizing, maintaining buffers, and learning from our experiences, we can navigate the unexpected with resilience and grace. In the end, it's not just about having a plan, but about knowing how to adjust it when life throws us a curveball.

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Sandy Stricker

Sandy Stricker is the CEO of Emerging Confidence, empowering women to listen to their inner voice and live in confidence while achieving their personal and professional goals. She helps women learn to lose the doubt so they can build a career they love and get the salary they deserve. She has more than 30 years of experience coaching high-performing women.

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